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I just watched the Obama speech online. Even if I was unsure about this guy before, all misgivings have disappeared. His speech was more than one of promises, it was also about responsibility. He could not have been more right on.
I have had this conversation before with others that are against any sort of socialism. Their argument is that we should be responsible entirely for ourselves . That if we are in a certain situation, whether it is homeless or living in a gang-infested neighborhood…we made our bed so we should just lie in it. I understand where they are coming from, I really do. I am not a big fan of the victim mentality.
But I can’t help but feel there is something inherently wrong about the lack of compassion in this argument. Don’t we as human beings have a responsibility to other things or people other than ourselves? Do we not have a responsibility to keep our families provided for, to extend a hand to someone who really needs a little help, to call our friends that we have lost touch with because they were in our thoughts and we know it matters to connect, to offer a kind word to a cashier that is having a bad day, to call your mom even though you really do not want to, to leave a ridiculous tip because you have a feeling the waitress needs it even more than you do.
And don’t we have a responsibility to keep our homes in order, to keep debris off our driveways, to keep our cars clean, to abstain from throwing litter in public places, to drive at a safe speed, to keep on cell phones off while we are concentrating on the road, to be aware of the laws, and respect that most of them make alot of sense.
Many of us do many of these things. We have moments of kindness, and generosity. Personally, I know I could do better. Unfortunately there are those that do barely anything to give back, to extend their sense of responsibility. Interestingly, sometimes the people that are in need of the most help, take their sense of responsibility the most seriously.
They champion for their children, they fight the insurance companies, they demand justice when they get laid off due to outsourcing, and they raise the awareness of the world when their cries are drowned out with rhetoric.
I think I have always routed for the underdog. Not sure why. Maybe I also grouped myself in that category. I came from a below middle class family, my family always struggled with money issues, and I was often made fun of because of my ways.
It made me stronger in a way. It was never so bad that I could not go to college or find some kind of work or pick myself up out of an undesirable situation. I was very fortunate.
I know others are not so fortunate. And I don’t believe it’s because they deserve it. No one deserves to not be seen. It boggles my mind and saddens me to realize that some people have this point of view. Hopefully, they are in the minority. I truly believe that is the case.
I guess we will find out soon enough. Come November we will have more of the same “take what you can get mentality” or it will be one human responsibility and compassion. Which one will you vote for?
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Kim McGinnis, Be Like Nature